Walking the coast path at this
point feels like being on the deck of a liner with a limitless horizon, and where
the sea touches the sky in a seamless continuity. Invariably, out in the Bay
are oil tankers parked in line. Normally there are three or four, but I’ve
counted as many as a dozen, waiting their turn for a berth in Milford Haven.
It is one of those places that, whatever
the weather, feels intensely spiritual. And, in fact, it has taken on the
character of a modern, secular 18th or 19th Century
churchyard. It is full of benches bearing plaques commemorating the lives of
people who frequented this place. One is in memory of Paul Blick who helped
establish the Pembrokeshre coast path in the 1960s and who was appointed its
first warden. The inscription is taken from Shakespeare’s sonnet, ‘Shall I
compare three to a summer’s day’: So
long as men can breathe or eyes can see, / So long lives this, and this
gives life to thee.
A stretch of the cliff path has
been tarmacked to provide wheelchair access. At intervals are square benches
hewn from tree trunks, all bearing plaques. One is for Sheila Ann Mathias
30-9-42 to 12-6-02: “In loving memory of a devoted wife, mother and granny who
liked to walk this path. Hope you enjoy the view as much as she did.” Another
is for Edward Hier 1913-2007 and Margaret Hier 1921-2012, both of whom were “Passionate
about Pembrokeshire”.
A little further on towards
Broadhaven is a standing stone with a plaque declaring: ‘In memory of Glyn
Charles Olympic Yachtsman. Lost at sea 4.9.1965 – 27.12.1998. He loved
Pembrokeshire.’ Charles was drowned, aged 33, after being swept overboard from the
yacht The Sword of Orion he was
crewing during the 630 mile Sydney to Hobart Race, one of yachting’s most
challenging contests. Ironically Glyn didn’t like ocean racing because the open
sea made him seasick. Instead he was ranked fourth in the world for sailing the Star Class, a 22.5ft, two-man
keelboat.
Most of these commemorations are
for people who lived for a reasonable time. They had a good innings, you might
say. But there is one for a young man who did not reach twenty, Roger Dyer 3
June 1981 – 27 February 2000. The inscription bears a quotation from Nelson
Mandela: “It is not a calamity to die with dreams unfulfilled, but it is a
calamity not to dream.”
Though we live in a largely
secular age, we still need our own versions of spiritual commemoration.
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